Is your relationship held together by love or by habit?

Many relationships today don’t keep that spark of love alive, and then life just becomes a habit, and we all know that habits can be hard to break, even when we would like to. 

As we get older sometimes, we no longer make love, for many different reasons, but that is no reason why we cannot show our love in other ways. 

A soft stroke on the cheek, an arm around our shoulders. 

A hug, a kiss, and words of love. 

Every night no matter how rattled I may have been with my husband during the day, always end the day by saying, “Good night God Bless, I love you”. 

I could not go to sleep without hearing this.  We have been married 32 years and I love him dearly.

Cooking a special meal together can be quite romantic, and doing anything together, a jigsaw, or play a game of scrabble or even the dreaded Monopoly.

You need to know how your husband /wife knows that you love them. 

Some show their love by doing things for you and saying nothing, others express their love in words, or taking you out somewhere special and finally some need to be touched, kissed and caressed, but you need to know how your partner needs to receive love.

Sitting at the table to share meals is a big bonus, whilst sitting watching TV with dinner on a tray is not a great way to share your feelings.

We sometimes get to a point where our relationship teenager /parent relationships too.

If you need help call Yvette Allen today on 0411 407 149 or send me a contact message about what I do and book a free 15 minute talk.